SUCCESS!!!
@boston85719 I followed your suggested solution and It works well, Link for easy finding for others are in this post below. (there are other great responces that are also worth reading and knowing for anyone else that finds this post later)

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Using 1 popup for multi data type delete actions - #2 by boston85719
Using 1 popup for multi data type delete actions - #23 by boston85719

Took me some time to wrap my head completely around it all but in the end I think its running smoothly. I will delve into the RE option you suggested in the later posts at a later date… I have to iron my brain out now hahahah

Thanks again for all your help to all of you