Hey @cheskiefisch,
For the in depth answer, check out this post from @keith.
Here’s a basic custom state toggle:
EDIT: Sorry @cheskiefisch, just noticing this was in the Idea section. I agree, it would be more Bubble-like to have an Opposite type of operation…but luckily we can at least do this with a single action…it just isn’t obvious.
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